Friday, November 2, 2012

CYG: Days 28-29

The tasks I've missed for these days are:
Day 28. Memory Share one of your most significant memories on this journey of grief, it can be a positive or negative memory.
Day 29. Music This might be hard to capture in a photograph so break the rules (that we don’t have, hah!) and post a youtube clip of a piece of music that reminds your of your baby/ies/child/ren


I've shared a lot of my NICU memories, but not necessarily my grief memories yet...or maybe I have as I have documented them through my blog...but probably the most significant memory so far has been all the candles that family and friends across the US and Canada lit in memory of my boys on October 15th this year.  It was touching, heartfelt and so very much appreciated.  I cried looking at all the photos people posted of their candles.  It made me feel so good to know that all my friends and family were remembering my boys.  I just don't want them to be forgotten...

I wasn't sure what music worked...I had a few songs sent to me when the boys were born that worked while they were still here, but didn't really fit now that they aren't...so I searched for one.  Let me tell you that I CRIED every single song I listened to.  None really fit until I found the following from Diamond Rio (I'm a huge country music fan)...I Believe...


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